Route · v3 · CC-BY-4.0
Lead the team
Every 1:1 leaves with one clear ask, honest feedback, and a date.
- For
- team leadmanagerengineering managerhead ofsupervisor
- Meetings
- 1:1 · Status
- By
- sidekick
Lens
How Sidekick reads these meetings when you walk this route.
In a one-to-one the manager who talks most learns least: let them do most of the talking. Inquiry 4+ means asking what is in the way before offering advice. Pushback 4+ means feedback that names the behaviour and the example, about the work, never the person; a vague hint is Pushback 2, softening is fine. Closing 4+ means the person leaves owning one next step with a date. Taking the task back yourself is Closing 2.
Path
Milestones tick themselves as your meetings meet them, in order.
- 1Follow up on their answers in 3 one-on-onesScore 4+ out of 5 on Inquiry in 3 1:1s
skill:inquiry >= 4 x3 kind:one_on_one - 2Feedback said plainlyA Great pushback moment in 1:1s
moments:great x1 skill:pushback kind:one_on_one - 3Three one-on-ones that ended with an owner and a dateScore 4+ out of 5 on Closing in 3 1:1s or status meetings
skill:closing >= 4 x3 kind:one_on_one|status - 4Stay steady under pressure in 3 meetingsScore 4+ out of 5 on Composure in 3 meetings
skill:composure >= 4 x3 - 5Inquiry ProficientInquiry level 60 (Proficient)
level:inquiry >= 60
Focus tracks
Each one becomes a skill with its own level once you walk the route; unrated until then.
Achievements
- Listened firstFive 1:1s where you asked before you advised
skill:inquiry >= 4 x5 kind:one_on_one - Plain feedbackThree times you said the hard thing, with the example
moments:great x3 skill:pushback kind:one_on_one - Handed it overFive rounds where they left owning the next step
skill:closing >= 4 x5 kind:one_on_one|status - Steady handFive 1:1s where you held the bar without heat
skill:composure >= 4 x5 kind:one_on_one - Kept your wordFive things you promised your people, done on time
commitments:ontime x5 kind:one_on_one
Drills
Lines to practice your answer to, before the meeting where someone says them.
Honestly, I'm fine, nothing to raise this week.Inquiry
I know the deck was late again. Things have been a lot.Pushback
Could you just take this one? You'd do it in half the time.Closing
The new process is pointless. We were faster before.Composure
Am I on track for the promotion?Clarity
I don't think the feedback from the review was fair.Composure